The Art Of Being Alone

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Alone, loneliness. People often think solitude as a sin and being alone is a punishment. Also they think, 'Loneliness and weak social connections are associated with a reduction in their lifespan for years.' Even it is not obviously true, let us examine the word and status of loneliness on being alone more precisely.

The Art of being Alone:

    To the point, Why people hate the idea of being with themselves so much that the time spent is considered loneliness? How can the idea of being with yourself without hiding the true self of you over others is considered a negative or dark part of the life which is yours? Is the life you are living in the present is not yours and should always be a compliments with the so called socialists and updated friends? Stop This Mentality and start to think about the truth for one second.

You will always think, I should have been wrong at sometime and blame yourself, the one who accepted it right, if anyone have abonde you or if also you feel that thing in your mind. The wrong is not with you but with the behaviour of others. Never blame yourself if you are not the one who should be in the guilt. Preserve you as the top most in the world and that is the basics of the art of being alone.

Uniqueness:

    People believe that being alone in the field is not right but wait a second. Wolf or specifically Arctic wolf always wander alone. They do not go to a family and kill predators recklessly. There are infinite routes for two points, says Physics. You can take any one of those infinite routes and go the other point or the next part of the life you live. You do not always need to take or stay in the straight line.

Just Because You Walk Alone It Does Not Mean That You Are Lost ! You are just In Some Other Route, Not a Wrong Route Indeed !!!

If you are standing in the fork of two roads, the road less travelled upon them makes severe differences. For getting into the road not taken you have be alone, different, unique and odd from all the people. 

For Being One You First Need to be ODD

Is it Pathetic?

It is your life but it is fencede upon the rules of the society. Even you think if you are right or wrong, when you go alone or be alone. David Wallace says,

You will Stop Worrying about What other Think about you When you Realise how seldom they Do!!

Its pretty Ironic. You are the biggest enemy of your task. Look around you, no ones judgement are louder than you own in your whole life. is it awesome? Being free, not under the act of anybody else, without hiding your own self is the best thing in whole world. Am I wrong, Comment it up in the Comments Section Below.

We do not really hate being alone and just we say because we are posed into the growu as the one who is always pathetic. It is not pathetic to be alone. we have to run along others and that does not give time for the solitude atmosphere.

What is Alone In Life?

    Being alone is a part of life. It is just a part of adulting. Blaise Pascal comments, 

ALL THE MISERIES THAT COME INTO THE LIFE OF THE MAN OR EVEN WOMEN IS BECAUSE OF HIS REFUSAL TO SOLITUDE!!

   Your Friends and mates won't stay with you for a long enough time. The simple truth of the life is that people leave for good or bad, but life life accelerates without caring for the so called friends and mates and it cares only for you in your life. 

Stop Your Mindset:

    Stop feeling Sorry about yourself. You are not the one who needs to be changed or redefined. You can never look perfect in the eyes of the everyone especially the digital world, where people comment for everything, and I mean everything. Have a policy of ALL IS WELL and THIS TOO SHALL PASS. This leads to immense changes in the whole life. Practise the Art of Being Alone, in a deeper sense. 

We think that we are not the person chosen to be in the shoes of enjoyment and hence see alone people or being alone a pathetic disturbing and a psychotic one. If you feel that even now, re-read the blog and that makes a clear picture of ALONE. Be with Friends and Also have sometime with you in your own world with your own life. 

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